Penis Size – Women’s Real Confessions

images5When it comes to the matter of penis size, it’s quite surprising just how far some women take the idea that bigger is better. While many women will freely admit they prefer a larger penis, more women than you might think will actually refuse to have sex with a man they were going to, or break up with a partner, just because of what they deem to be penis size inadequacy.

Here is a quote from a lady named Marie, who is now married, but was recounting a previous dating experience on the research panel for this article:

“When we got back to his place everything was going well until I saw it. I am not normally that mean, but I couldn’t help laughing. There was no way I could go through with it after that, so I just left. He looked mortified.”

Marie is not alone. In a recent survey, 61% of sexually active women reported that they had walked out of an intimate situation simply because they were put off by a man having a small penis.

For some women, it is not just a ruined date. Here is another quote from the panel – this time a 25 year old named Emily who is currently in a relationship with a man she describes as “huge”.

“My ex, Dave, was really small. I hadn’t really realized how much that bothered me, or thought I was particularly into massive guys before that, but I gradually found myself resenting him, and if I’m honest, thinking of him as less of a man. I don’t think he ever knew that that was why I dumped him, but really, it was.”

Again, Emily’s story is not that unusual. 65% of women cited penis size as a “significant factor” in one or more previous break-ups. Perhaps more worryingly, 69% said they would genuinely consider cheating on a partner who had a small penis with a larger man if there was no chance of getting caught.

If you are worried about something like this happening to you, you’ll probably be pleased to know that it is actually surprisingly easy to increase penis size, at home, using a reasonably inexpensive tool called a penis extender, such as the devices by Male Edge or Jes Extender. A penis extender is basically a workout for the penis, which uses traction to make cells grow, expanding both the girth and length naturally and permanently.

How Do Women Feel About Male Enhancement Products?

Most women are sceptical about male enhancement products, as their claims can be seen to be ‘too good to be true.’ There are various products to choose from including pills, gels, patches penis pumps etc all designed to give the man harder, longer-lasting and bigger erections, improve quality of sperm/semen, improve ejaculation, promote better orgasms and improve libido and stamina.

The general feeling about male enhancement products is that they are just a way of companies to make money and simply, do not work. Or that they could cause damage to the penis or worse, in the case of buying from unscrupulous companies.

Some men feel so insecure about their sexual ability and/or penis size they resort to using these products in secret, because they are embarrassed and worried about your reaction. If he’s a new partner, he may be paranoid that he won’t measure up to previous partners. You may want a baby at some stage, what if he can’t deliver?

It’s true that some products on the market offer no real benefits at all, but there are some that are clinically trialed and tested by doctors that are scientifically proven to work.

If your partner has always been average in bed and all of a sudden, his performance sky-rockets and he turns into a ‘stud’ overnight, there is a good chance he could be using a male enhancement product.

Despite your personal views on it, try to understand why. If your sex life is suffering, sexual frustration sets in not only for you but for him. Besides, your partner is doing this for you. He wants to make you happy and keep you satisfied in bed, he doesn’t want you to leave him for someone else who will deliver the goods. And in the case of women who struggle to climax with their partners or who have never climaxed, believe they could be suffering from female sexual dysfunction, it could just be your man is bad in bed!

Male enhancement products can actually help to spice up your sex life, even if your partner has no problem performing, the added boost can really work wonders for your bedroom antics.  Even if you believe it is all a placebo effect, there’s no denying the difference that an extra bit of confidence could make in your sexual affairs. Even some of the world’s most famous porn stars rely on these products to make sure they give the performance of their life.

Reputable male enhancement supplements are totally safe, containing natural and organic ingredients that have traditionally been used to promote good sexual health and function, have no side effects and can be safely used before and during sex for a much-needed boost.  A highly recommended volume pill, Performer5 is dual combination system comprising of the finest herbal formula, 100% natural and pure, Performer5 will boost your man’s sexual prowess, virility, potency and performance.

Bigger, harder and more commanding erections, ejaculations that go further (think like in the porn films), greater orgasms, staying power and a much higher sex drive. Just because your sex life has gone limp it doesn’t mean your man has to.

Avoid These Techniques

Most men are very concerned with penis size, and how their penis measures up to other men’s. Because of this, men have tried all sorts of ways to enlarge their penis. Some can be harmful and can cause discomfort to them, while many others are expensive or simply ineffective.

Studies have shown that most men are interested in penis enlargement. In fact these studies show that most men are not satisfied with their penis length or their sexual performance. They are also dissatisfied with the firmness of the erect penis, but are unwilling to talk with their doctor about what they perceive as a problem.

Many men are convinced that their penis is not large enough to satisfy their lover. This leads to an overall lack of confidence when making love, and this lack of confidence often leads to a softer erection, which feeds the problem by often leading to feelings of inadequacy. This can even lead to relationship problems as these feelings take root and deepen.

Feeling that you are an unsatisfactory lover leads to a lack of desire to have sex, which the woman in your life may interpret as sexual rejection. This can lead to further misunderstanding regarding sex and the relationship, and often leads to serious problems between couples.

The adult entertainment industry is full of ads for products and programs for the enlargement of the penis. The products include pills, creams and sprays that claim they will cause penis growth. These claims range from the scientific to the outrageous. Below we talk about penis enlargement methods that DO NOT WORK:

Enlargement Creams

Over the last few years, advertisements have been popping up for creams that claim that they will enlarge the penis with regular use. Do they work? Medical evidence has demonstrated that no topical preparation can do more for you than to increase blood flow in the area, which may aid in other programs and may also assist in erection firmness, but these preparations can do nothing on their own to promote actual penis enlargement.

Penis Pumps

One of the most common product advertised for penis enlargement is the penis pump. It can be seen on sale on the internet, in adult bookstores and magazines, and even in drug stores. The pumps work by creating a vaccuum around the penis and bringing blood to the tissue. This can assist men with extremely poor circulation to have an erection.

There is no actual medical evidence that penis pumps cause any actual increase in the size of the penis. Some men may even find that if they use a penis pump over a period of time that they will be unable to get an erection without using the pump.

Using Weights
Men have used this method of penis enlargement for hundreds of years. Basically you hang weight from your penis in order to stretch it. Many ancient and tribal people practiced this method. Does it work? Over time, with regular use, you can achieve greater length using this method. The drawbacks include a thinner penis, and because of the stretched tissue, often less ability to achieve and maintain an erection.

This method can also cause decrease in blood circulation to the penis, which can lead to serious problems including tissue damage.

Enlargement Surgery
Surgery is a big step, and an expensive one. More importantly, it can lead to serious complications like infection. It can also lead to scar tissue formation which can cause a misshapen penis. A common form of penis enlargement surgery involves taking your body fat and injecting a small amount into the penis. This does not cause significant change in length, although it can make a difference in girth.

Some men have the connective tissue at the top of their penis cut, which does not actually enlarge the penis, but does cause it to jut further out from the body. Of course, having less support, your penis will not stand up as far from your body as it did previous to the surgery.

Penis surgery doesn’t change your ability to get an erection, or the firmness of that erection. This is caused by blood flow in the penis.

Enlargement pills – 99% of these are rip-off pills which are nothing more than vitamin pills, some do work but be careful of which ones you do choose. (check out the penis pills here.)

What Is Better, Pills Or Exercises?

What is the better way to enhance the penis size, pills or exercise? That is the question that has been bothering men for years.

Throughout the centuries, men have always yearned for a bigger penis size. It is a given that not all men are endowed with the gift of a big and thick penis. If someone has a big penis, he is always considered as the man of all mans in his community. Those who did not receive this gift are considered as boy who is not yet matured. They are always mocked, bullied, and laughed at for their considered imperfection, even though it is not their faults.

Most men nowadays have average or even small-sized penises, but it does not mean they are immature. They don’t have to feel sorry for it because that is hereditary. As a result, they keep on inventing exercises, devices, herbal medicines that can remedy their problem.

The penis exercises have been popular among men who have small sexual organs, and it goes back to centuries. The most common of these exercises is jelqing. Stories say that this technique originated from Arabia and often practiced by men who are about to get married. To please their future wives, they do this exercise. These exercises commonly called milking or power jelqing.

This exercise is believed to increase the length and girth of a penis. All you have to do is massage your penis for at least 45 minutes per session. In jelqing exercises, it usually takes up to 45 minutes to finish one session. Despite that, people still practice the exercise in hopes of achieving their dream size.

Even though jelqing is a natural way to increase penis size, jelqing exercises can also damage your penis when you put too much pressure on your organ. Too much of these exercises is not good and can damage the penis. One common disorder after jelqing is temporary erection damage, which will require you to stay away from sex for a while. When the penis gets exercised too much, it usually changes color, and this is as sign that you should consult your doctor.

Pills have also been invented to remedy the penis problems of men. Scientists, doctors, and even nutritional experts have worked together to create the best and effective penis pill. Instead of the usual chemical ingredients, they have used the method of eastern medicine to create an all-natural pill. Its ingredients are usually made from plant extracts and herbal medicine, which is guaranteed to have no side effects on the body. Men can easily absorb the pills because of its edible components.

When choosing the pill that is right for you, make sure that they are made from natural ingredients. The chemically-composed pills, with ingredients manufactured from laboratories, usually contain components that may harm the body if used.

Pills and exercises can definitely increase the penis size. However, if a man takes the penis pills and also do some jelquing exercises, the results will be achieved quickly. The secret is just to keep the balance. Avoid overdoing the exercises because it may damage the penis, and do not keep on taking more pills as prescribed by the instructions. If you follow everything and do it right, you can achieve the length and width you have been waiting for in a short amount of time.

How to Help Your Female Partner Have Orgasms

These days most women want orgasms. That wasn’t always the case. A couple of generations or so ago, many adult females simply didn’t have climaxes – and a lot of them weren’t bothered about it. Probably a lot of them didn’t actually know what an orgasm was.

And some doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was ‘normal’ to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn’t exist – and was simply a myth made up by the media.

All that has changed now. These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms – if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms – if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.

What is a female orgasm?

We’re writing this explanation in the assumption that you – the reader – are male. But what follows will be of interest to a lot of female readers too.

What happens in a woman’s body during a climax is very like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there’s a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything ‘blows’ in a great blast of ecstasy. This ‘orgasmic moment’ is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.

Men are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn’t happen in women.

A few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women ‘ejaculate’ is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.

Multiple orgasm

The other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can ‘come’ again, often within a minute or two.

This ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it’s an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms – if they so desire.

Bringing women to a climax

For men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it’s not a mechanical thing – as it generally is with men.

You see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren’t very romantic – or even if they don’t particularly like the person who’s doing the rubbing! Women are not like this. Female orgasm isn’t a push-button response. The conditions have to be right.

Although females vary, many women need the following if they’re going to reach a climax easily:

  • a romantic atmosphere
  • pleasant, comfortable surroundings
  • a partner who they really like
  • a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
  • a good flow of natural lubrication – so that the delicate female parts don’t get sore
  • a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.

Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.

Please bear in mind that – contrary to what many men think – sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman’s clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.

So, try not to give the impression to your female partner that she ‘ought’ to be able to climax through intercourse alone and that that is what you think of as ‘proper sex’. The sex menu can be a varied one. Some women, for example, find it really easy to climax through oral sex – particularly if the guy is patient and sensitive to what his partner wants. And how does he find out what she wants and what turns her on? Well, a wise man will ask her.

What he should not do is to assume that his technique is flawless and that if his partner does not come, it’s her fault. Plenty of men think that because a previous girlfriend always came a certain way, this one should follow suit. Women are not all the same in their likes or dislikes. So do try to treat your partner as an individual.

Many women like much more foreplay or loveplay than men imagine. They want to feel that the man is keen on giving pleasure – and not just in a hurry to have his own climax. In fact, the worst thing a man can say to a woman is: ‘Haven’t you come yet?’ This is likely to make her feel extremely inadequate and will ruin any build-up of sexual pleasure and tension that might have been taking place.

What to do

In summary, here’s what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:

  1. don’t be in a rush.
  2. don’t be too demanding – it’s not an Olympic event.
  3. talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
  4. always create a romantic atmosphere.
  5. make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
  6. give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
  7. when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don’t rush into ‘attacking’ her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she wants.
  8. use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris. (If she is over 40, it may be a good idea to use some additional lubrication from a chemist or a sex shop).
  9. remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
  10. sometimes encourage her to ‘run’ your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by really listening to her when she suggests a sex position, or a particular caress.

Penis Girth Review

The age-old question, “Does size matter?” has been debated for eons. Both men and women alike are interested to know what really gives. Men are obsessed with the size of their penis and many have found ways to make their member larger. That’s why the penis enlargement industry is booming offering everything — from cream, pills, patches, weights, traction devices, and even surgery. The media and the overly-hyped stories of ‘well-endowed’ men have undoubtedly contributed to the already convoluted subject of penis size.

Men with larger organs are regarded to be more manly and better in bed. Thus, “Bigger is better” has become a popular adage. Furthermore, this insight seems to emanate from male vanity rather than the pleasure that your penis can provide. A small penis is equated to diminished masculinity, virility, and at times, also associated to impotency.

But, in fact, most researches have revealed that the average penis size is not the 12″ advertised by porn stars. Besides, these porn stars are not representative of the average man. They may very well be more well-endowed than you (this is their luck) or have undergone some enlargement procedure. The average penis size is actually between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.

But countless women have agreed that the length of the penis has not much to do with sexual pleasure; but width may indeed matter in the long run. It has to do with stimulating their G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.

The nerves that are stimulated during sexual intercourse are located near the entrance of the vagina and the anus. Penis girth is significant here since a meatier penis can stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves. This creates friction and sensation that most women love during a sexual experience.

Anyway, preference is still based on the individual woman. Because of the points highlighted above, many women have a penchant for larger dicks. But remember, it’s not only a big penis women crave. They seek passion, intimacy and emotional connection. Remember to show her your love by giving her flowers, a sensual massage, or candles with rose petals. Assault her senses with romantic gestures and you’ll be well rewarded. If you have a girthy penis, you’ll be rewarded even more .

Experiment on different sexual positions and incorporate toys in your love-making. Identify her key erogenous zones (i.e., her clitoris) and come up with techniques to stimulate her — with your tongue, vibrator, fingers, etc.

Penis size is important but it’s also the combination of skill, passion and romance. After all, sex is as much fun as you make it.

Penis biggerThe penis may come in different lengths and thickness; it even comes in different shapes. However, there are some people who are overweight that see their penises have become smaller. It did not get smaller; it’s just that the body’s size has grown to overpower the penis. Losing weight doesn’t make your penis bigger or increase in size. Although, it can make your penis and scrotum “look” bigger when you shed off some fat, especially in the thigh and belly area. It will create an appearance that your penis is more protruding and that it is more visible with the reduction of those fatty tissues blocking the view.

Sometimes, being overweight or large is not just the reason for having a seemingly small penis. Temperature and sexual libido also makes the penis “alive” or not. When you are not aroused or when you feel cold, your penis wouldn’t stand up or enlarge, giving the impression that it is small. You can also opt to remove some of your pubic hair to see your penis. Keeping a trim or well toned body can really add on to your self esteem and confidence about your penis. You don’t necessarily need to jump into medications or devices to make your penis big, you can start with a lifestyle check and some improvements to improve your penile health and appearance.

Now with regards to your diet, there are a lot of weight loss programs that you can get into. In fact, your eating habits or eating lifestyle contributes a great deal into losing weight. Skipping meals won’t do you good but eating healthier while doing some physical exercises can help shape you up. You can start by seeking advice from a health care professional and a nutritionist. Keep a relaxed mind together with your body and little by little you will see changes with your well being and with your outlook on that buddy of yours.

When losing weight, you should remember that cutting down on the calories can be a big help. If you can’t totally cut down on the eating, you have to increase your physical activities. It would be better if you can do both but do it gradually. It wouldn’t do you any good if you get into those fad diets or crash diets. Try looking for a program that suits you and it should be something that you can stick to. Maintenance is very important and once your dieting has started to take effect, it doesn’t mean that you should stop immediately. In fact, doing them regularly until they become a part of your system helps give you an assurance that you can stay fit and that your penis isn’t getting any smaller.

When it comes to your diet, take in less fat like oily or salty foods and sweets. Try taking in more servings of fruits and vegetables, since they are rich in vitamins, fiber, and water making you feel full. Eat a decent portion of meat and carbohydrates and cut down on the alcohol, caffeine, and cigarette consumption.